Today, I am grateful for my mother. Even though she is living with dementia, I am thankful that she is still here with us, present in her own quiet way. I am grateful that she is not in pain, that her days are filled with calm moments, and that she is able to experience comfort and rest.
One of the blessings in this difficult journey is seeing how much the unhappy memories seem to have faded from her mind. The things that once troubled her no longer weigh on her. There is a softness in her expressions now, a kind of innocence that brings me both peace and sadness at the same time.
I am also deeply grateful for the wonderful helper who takes care of her daily needs with patience, kindness, and genuine compassion. She makes sure my mother eats well, sleeps well, and is always safe and clean. Knowing that my mother is cared for with love lifts a huge weight from my heart. Her presence in our lives is a blessing I will never take for granted.
Most of all, I am thankful that my mother is comfortable, eating well, and resting well on most days. In this stage of her life, comfort and dignity matter more than anything else. Seeing her calm, peaceful, and free from suffering is something I am truly grateful for.
Dementia is a long and emotional journey, but today I choose to focus on gratitude. Gratitude that she is still here. Gratitude that she is cared for. Gratitude for the tender moments that still shine through.
Here’s to cherishing every gentle day we still have with her. 🌿💛
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