Today, I want to write about something that is not easy to feel grateful for – rejection. Recently, I faced a painful experience where, after months of preparation and commitment, I was told at the last minute that my work was rejected. What made it harder was that I had already been accepted by this organisation more than three months ago, paid the fees, and put in all the effort to get ready.
It was deeply disappointing, and for a moment, I felt angry and hurt. I could not believe that supposedly reputable organisation could act with such unprofessionalism and lack of integrity. Many people were affected. We trusted the process, did everything right, yet were left feeling blindsided and disrespected.
But after sitting with those emotions, I began to see things differently. Sometimes, rejection is not a punishment – it is protection. The universe has a quiet way of steering us away from situations that no longer serve us, even if it means using discomfort to do it.
Perhaps this was a way to save me from losing more time, energy, and money. Maybe it was pulling me away from environments filled with hidden agendas, politics, and poor ethics. I had second thoughts about joining this a few months back but went against my instinct and decided to participate. I believe now that this closed door is actually a blessing in disguise, making space for something far more aligned with who I am and how I work. My instinct was right from the beginning.
Each setback teaches resilience. It reminds me that my worth is not defined by others’ approval or decisions. My path as an artist is guided by authenticity, integrity, and purpose – qualities that cannot be rejected by anyone.
Today, I am grateful for the lesson this experience has brought me. Grateful to be reminded that even when things fall apart, they are often falling into place. And grateful for the strength to keep creating, keep believing, and keep walking my path with trust in the timing of the universe. Lastly, I need to trust my gut instinct.
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